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The Main Lounge => So you want to be a male escort... => Topic started by: NathanielJs on June 12, 2011, 10:18:12 AM

Title: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: NathanielJs on June 12, 2011, 10:18:12 AM
Question for the men : Does the size of the city I'm searching for clients in make it easier or harder to find them,
and should I even limit myself to one city?

Question for the ladies: How many other ladies do you know that have met with male for woman escorts?
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: Madison on June 12, 2011, 10:28:39 AM
I don't personally know of any ladies that have met with companions/escorts.

I have not shared with anyone my experiences with companions, other than the ladies on this forum until recently. She was a total stranger. She brought up the subject abd said how interested she was in it, so I took a leap and jumped out of my comfort zone and told her briefly about my experiences. She was very interested and it felt good to share.

I think that finding a companion that fits what you need can be a very positive experience that more woman need to try. We as woman are just more quiet about these things, or at least in the south.

Annette :)
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: NathanielJs on June 12, 2011, 05:04:38 PM
So women only share so much? Love your avatar btw.
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: alexslogan on June 12, 2011, 06:15:05 PM
Speaking from a US point of view.

The larger the city the better your chance at getting booked - for a number of reasons. First, and most obvious is population size. Second, larger cities are more likely to have business travelers who are looking for a night out; a corollary of this is that larger cities are more likely to have foreign visitors and I think - I have no firm data to back me up - that outside the US there are more relaxed attitudes on this. Finally, larger cities tend to have a more open outlook on unusual encounters which also increases the potential client base.

I think you will find that the gents that do best do not limit themselves to one city or even to one country.
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: Madison on June 12, 2011, 10:09:34 PM
Love your avatar btw.

Thank you :)

Annette :)
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: winddancer on June 13, 2011, 04:39:45 AM
Hi Nathaniel -

First, let me just preface my post by saying that I have not yet met any companions so I am a complete novice.  But I did want to say that I have never met (in person) any other ladies that have met with a companion before.  Not saying the women I know haven't, they just not have shared that information with me if they have. I'm not sure if it's something that women talk about in their circle of friends unless it's a best friend.

I had to search on the Internet to find CdM and male companions.  I knew nothing about male companions before my search and I've learned the most through the folks here.

Hope that helps.
Winddancer
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: NathanielJs on June 13, 2011, 06:59:33 AM
It's sad but I have to admit that the only thing I knew about male companions, before finding cdm, was a comedy with Rob Schneider.
yay cdm /cheerleader
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: Guest008 on June 14, 2011, 05:45:22 PM
I don't personally know of any ladies that have met with companions/escorts.

I have not shared with anyone my experiences with companions, other than the ladies on this forum until recently. She was a total stranger. She brought up the subject abd said how interested she was in it, so I took a leap and jumped out of my comfort zone and told her briefly about my experiences. She was very interested and it felt good to share.

Annette :)


So women only share so much?

No, they share everything.
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: xxx on June 14, 2011, 10:40:20 PM
So women only share so much.

I share a lot with my close girlfriends.  No topic is taboo and virtually no activity is either.  One of my gf's who has been in my life for about 12 years has been part of all sorts of activities with me. She bathed me after I had an operation and couldn't care for myself.  We've shared men and women sexually, at the same time......

It's one of the wonderful things about close female friendship.  I could probably live without the men in my life (I'd be sad, but I could cope), but I know I couldn't live without the women.

Christina :)
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: NathanielJs on June 16, 2011, 02:16:49 PM
Thank you guys soo much for your input, I still have a lot to learn. Soon I will get off my lazy streak and start a blog of how I came to the decision to seek out this profession, I think folks will be interested to read what I have to say.
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: Guest007 on June 16, 2011, 08:05:39 PM
Good luck Nathaniel... and don't get discouraged at all in any aspect of building your brand {which is you of course} for instance: my site won't be ready for another six months or so, but everyday is another day that I'm focusing more on marketing, understanding Google Analytics, or bridging an avenue for a social networking feed to better my exposure. It'll take a lot of man hours, but if this is something you want, it will all work in your favor.  /thumbsup

-Logan
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: Steven Duane on June 19, 2011, 02:34:37 AM
christina and cole..........sitting in a tree.
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: NoGNoG on June 22, 2011, 09:31:51 PM
I have shared with my close friends, male or female.  I have nothing to be "shamed" about.  Also, it is not in my nature to stay in shadows.  My husband knows with no details.  I have shared with women within the CdM community.  I have even shared, not only the topic, but my companion time with my sisters.

I had to share the Head of Orthopedics in San Francisco during one companion driven weekend. 

I have found through my travels that the Sisterhood is strong.  I have been helped many a time from the kindness of women strangers.  I have to agree with Cole.

Besides, when one finds a new toy or gadget so enjoyable, does not one like to share the information so others have a chance to go acquire one too?

Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: xxx on June 24, 2011, 10:21:33 AM
Besides, when one finds a new toy or gadget so enjoyable, does not one like to share the information so others have a chance to go acquire one too?

Most definititely!  Of course, there is always the risk that as satisfaction within the escort world is more subjective than the toy or gadget one, that one woman's steak is another's hamburger, but yes, if I came across an escort who I thought a friend would enjoy (assuming she shares my taste), I would most definitely encourage her to book him too.  Friends share  ;D

Christina  :)
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: xoxo on June 25, 2011, 04:58:02 AM
......that one woman's steak is another's hamburger.....

Christina  :)

This phrase had me laughing!

And I do agree with you Christina, friends share  :)

Bel x
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: Guest008 on July 01, 2011, 12:37:30 PM
A question for the women of CdM.

I was wondering when does sharing of information cross the line into the area of salacious gossip? Is there no censure on information and everything is open for discussion between Patrons in the demimonde? Would you be happy to hear from another Patron about her intimate experiences with your favourite companion?
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: Madison on July 01, 2011, 01:11:40 PM
Interesting question Cole,

I have only shared with ladies of CdM about my seeing companions, I envy the ladies who feel free to share with other friends in there life.

Now to your question, I don't think that we as patrons should share everything about our experiences with a companion. Or at least I don't. I share to an extent, but never gossip about intimate, private moments. I think those our things that should stay private. I also respect the privacy of the companions that I see. I think that they deserve some respect in that area.

The only thing I think I would share is if something was 100% dangerous, and someone was in danger. But I have not come across any companions that fit in that category.

I hope that answers your question. ;)

Annette
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: winddancer on July 01, 2011, 03:20:31 PM

Hi Cole --

I personally think that sharing among the patrons would never be construed as gossip.  Salacious or not.  It would be more of a recommendation or not.  We women have a right to know if certain gentleman would be right for us based on another patrons experiences.

I would, however, never ask someone to share intimate experiences with me.  Only the basics.. manners, attitude, characteristics and overall enjoyment.  I would be very happy to hear about these details of my favorite companion from another patron to make sure I was getting a true read of the gentleman in question.

I agree with Annette though, if there was ever any negative issues or danger, it's our right as women to share that to protect future women.

Hope that helps.
Winddancer
 ;)

Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: John Oh on July 01, 2011, 04:24:58 PM
Personally, as the provider of a commercial service (regardless of how intimate it is) my attitude is that I need to _expect_ that my performance will be discussed in detail by my clients.

They may not, but If I expect that it will be, then that sets the tone for everything I do and guides my behaviour.  I don't expect to be able to get away with bad behaviour or poor performance, so I always try my hardest to provide for my client's needs.

I treat it a bit like email: if you don't want it appearing on the front page of the newspaper, then don't put it in an email, because if it's really important, then there's a real chance that is where it will end up.

John.
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: TMC4women on February 02, 2012, 08:17:29 AM
Our experiences as a male gigolo agency are like the ladies her on this topic have posted:  our patrons generally don't have any trouble with publishing their reviews, however without the intimate details. We have received more than 70 reviews and placed them 1:1 on our website www.gigolo-services.com, of course after having received permission to do so.
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: Tasha on February 14, 2012, 04:40:27 AM
A question for the women of CdM.

I was wondering when does sharing of information cross the line into the area of salacious gossip? Is there no censure on information and everything is open for discussion between Patrons in the demimonde? Would you be happy to hear from another Patron about her intimate experiences with your favourite companion?

As a newbie both to this site and to the role of patron, I am learning my way around this world. I am also in the process of (I believe) forming friendships with some of the ladies here. Tentative plans to one day meet - when we are on the same continent - have been made.  ;D

I have gratefully accepted advice from a couple of the ladies here, and learned from their experience - but at no time were names revealed to me.  Frankly, I would be fine if a lady told me she had met a companion and he was lovely / funny / witty, but I wouldn't want to hear intimate details from a woman I consider a friend.  (I used to know a woman who told me everything no matter how many times I told her I wasn't interested, so it put me off sharing...)  /rolleye 

If asked by a companion, I would seriously consider writing a review, though. Perhaps it's odd, but I see that as being different to comparing notes with a friend.  :)
Title: Re: A question for established men, and ladies who have met them
Post by: daniel on April 09, 2012, 09:22:26 PM
well.. the only thing you can do, when you write  the title of your website domain, then you may right the city that you are  interested to work in and in the keyword you can add few words of other cities or countries.,that will help to bring client all over the place