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Introductions / Re: Hector - About Me - Introductions
« on: December 28, 2012, 08:38:11 PM »
http://copyscape.com/?q=http%3A%2F%2Fconciergedumonde.com%2Fforum%2Findex.php%3Ftopic%3D1366.0

Hector, I was trying to be polite. I see you are from India. The text in your introduction, besides being Sitara's, is nothing like you write regularly. Your posts have an accent to them. It's kinda cute, actually. I was just suggesting that you should write something about you, and not Sitara. I can't imagine that you would be exactly how Sitara describes herself.

There is no need to get your boxers in a wad. ;) Just write something on your own. And I was serious about being willing to help you. I have helped many companions- both male and female- compose text for their websites. In many cases, these have been companions who actually plagiarized my own website copy. (It is amazing what you turn up when you put your own URL into the copyscape search box!)

Either way, best of luck.

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Introductions / Re: Hector - About Me - Introductions
« on: December 27, 2012, 07:05:33 PM »
Hi Hector,

Welcome!

Would you mind writing something original about yourself? ;) Sitara is a good friend of mine and plagiarism is not welcome. I'd be happy to help you if you need it, as English is not your first language. But it is never OK to copy someone's text. Thanks!

http://www.copyscape.com
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But getting a pleasant message from somebody you like...or from somebody you are seeing very regularly is a joy!

If you're seeing someone very often, in all likelihood you've established appropriate times and means of contact, and that's all good. But how does a companion you've never met or communicated with other than this forum know if you find him annoying or you like him? How does he not know you're just being polite? Unless he has ESP, I think the safer bet is not to contact via email (much more personal) out of the blue. If you've established a rapport on the forum via PMs, perhaps that is different. But then again, how does the companion know you're not just being polite by engaging with him via PM here? Wouldn't it be best to leave such communication outside the forum (i.e., via email) to be initiated by the patron?

Holly,

That was clear to me. But that was not what I intended nor wanted to defend.
I would still argue that sending a CDM-type PM is different from sending a mail to someone's personal mail address. Still not to be misused for unsolicited window-washing indeed, but on the other hand a forum like this is also different from what you describe as normal contacts between high-end companions and their patrons.
I mean, using a CDM-PM to react on a posting is for me different than sending an out-of-the blue message to the private mail of someone.

Julien

And yes, Julien, as Alex pointed out, I mentioned that PMs are a bit different. I also explained further in my own post (pasted below) regarding PMs, but feel free to argue to your hearts content. We are not in disagreement here. :)

Julien, I think that any private messages from the men to the ladies out of the blue should NOT be soliciting them to engage your services. Being charming and conversive is one thing- begging for dates is quite another. Explaining how you're going to behave physically with them and offering to send them unsolicited photos of various body parts is also unacceptable. Getting graphic and physically descriptive before she's inquired about that in a very specific way is completely uncalled for and unacceptable. And any offer of sexual services for money between companions and patrons in the US is illegal, and elsewhere is uncouth (elsewhere where it is perfectly legal, it should be a given- shouldn't get graphic until a lady has initiated such a conversation, preferable by email). Hope that clarifies!! In other words- no unsolicited window washing.

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I will also post that female high-end companions have a certain unwritten protocol about engaging with patrons outside of paid engagements.

We do NOT contact our patrons out of the blue via telephone, email, or text (private messages are different). The reason for this is that it can create some really awkward situations (what if the patron is in a business meeting or with family- how will he explain the text/call/etc? What if a patron's significant other is looking over his shoulder while he reads his emails? This is just not to be done). We only answer correspondence sent to us by patrons (as they will be expecting the correspondence), we only call at prearranged times (one of the great selling points of our services is that we are there when requested and invisible when not), and unless the patron requests or initiates, texts are simply out of the question. Text records can be subpoenaed in a divorce case and can have devastating consequences for patrons in custody battles, etc. So can emails for that matter; and as such, all our emails are typically very PG and friendly without being lascivious or solicitous. And the only unsolicited emails I ever send are to wish them happy hollidays or happy birthday, and they again are benign enough to not raise eyebrows should a significant other read them.

I think you gents would do well to adapt these practices. Be sure you're not becoming an annoyance with your contacting patrons (existing or potential). There has to be a balance.


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I look forward to seeing what you guys come up with!  :)

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Julien, I think that any private messages from the men to the ladies out of the blue should NOT be soliciting them to engage your services. Being charming and conversive is one thing- begging for dates is quite another. Explaining how you're going to behave physically with them and offering to send them unsolicited photos of various body parts is also unacceptable. Getting graphic and physically descriptive before she's inquired about that in a very specific way is completely uncalled for and unacceptable. And any offer of sexual services for money between companions and patrons in the US is illegal, and elsewhere is uncouth (elsewhere where it is perfectly legal, it should be a given- shouldn't get graphic until a lady has initiated such a conversation, preferable by email). Hope that clarifies!! In other words- no unsolicited window washing.

@Annette & Christina,

I agree with contacting out of the blue.
But on the other hand PM is part of the forum options to be used by anyone. So giving only the Ladies the right for first use is conflicting with my notions of equal gender rights (well, some of you are defending the Ladies, but sometimes I feel I have to stand up to defend us Gentlemen ;) - especially as this kind of rules give me an underlying connotation that we are all villains and need rules to behave  >:D )

Would you e.g. equally mind if it would be like a comment to a posting ?
I think the most important point is to use it respectfully, in topic and form, and to judge well from the answer on any further action.

Julien




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Newbies / Re: idea's for a website
« on: February 21, 2011, 12:23:31 PM »
Looks great, Tyler!! You have lovely teeth.   ;D

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Introductions / Re: Hi everyone, I am Naomi
« on: February 20, 2011, 11:55:50 PM »
Thanks, Naomi! I am excited to read your paper!  /clap2

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Introductions / Re: Hello fellows, I am Salvador!
« on: February 20, 2011, 11:43:49 PM »
Thanks again for the warm welcome guys! :)

Muchas gracias Holly! :) Tu Castellano (Español) es perfecto! Besos cariño... ;D

Encantado, Salvador.  :-*

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Also if a lady has not personally contacted you than there should be no need for you as a companion to contact her. I think it is quite a desperate thing to do and quite annoying to contact a lady that has not contacted you. It is the worst type of cold calling and gentleman I wouldn't recommend it. A woman will know by reading your site and posts if she wants to contact you.

Annette


Love this, Annette! I get an image of the windshield washers in NYC...bless 'em. As a female companion, I was always amazed that so many of my colleagues on the forums I used to frequent would PM men completely out of the blue. It's like a waitress going out into the street and grabbing passers-by to shove a menu in their face...But I guess to each his/her own.

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General Discussion / Re: Research?
« on: February 03, 2011, 10:35:30 PM »
Well, the person in question registered just like any other member. So she is a member here. She's introduced herself as Naomi, and I commend her for being up front about her intentions among us. As a registered member, Naomi will have access to all your posts that are accessible to the public anyway. She doesn't yet have access to the inner circle, and may not as she doesn't technically qualify as a "lady" in that she is not looking for male companionship.

Remember that any internet user can see any of your posts that are above the "Behind the Velvet Rope" section. The only difference between Naomi and any other net surfer that happens upon this board is that because she registered, she can post. She has no greater access to posts than anyone who is not registered.

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Introductions / Re: ROGUE WARRIOR HERE !
« on: February 03, 2011, 10:25:52 PM »
Welcome, Randy! :-*
Please see your private messages. xo

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Introductions / Re: Hello fellows, I am Salvador!
« on: February 03, 2011, 10:09:11 PM »
Bienvenido, Salvador! Diviértase aquí, por favor. Y perdone por favor mi malo Español!  /pray Un beso! :-*

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Introductions / Re: Alex Adonis
« on: February 03, 2011, 09:57:56 PM »
Welcome, Alexander! (Whew!! So happy to call you Alexander.) Lovely to have you here.  :-*

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Introductions / Re: Hi everyone, I am Naomi
« on: February 03, 2011, 09:53:07 PM »
Welcome, Naomi!  :)

Please tell us more about yourself. Why are you studying male escorts? What got you interested in this subject? Do you know any male escorts? How did you find this forum?

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