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« on: March 06, 2012, 12:01:47 PM »

Over a year ago, I researched and wrote an article about what it would take for a man to break into the demimonde. For reasons no longer important the article remained unpublished, until now. This article, one of two, is the vehicle that let me entertain the idea of connecting with a companion of my very own.



You've been visualizing visiting exotic locals in the lap of luxury, on someone else's dime. Fantasizing about the great sex, thinking if you played your cards right you'd satisfy a different woman every night.

Think again.

I hate to be the one to burst your bubble, but the business of male companions for women is still a fledgling one. Sure, women have made great progress in their sexual self-actualization, but that doesn't mean you'll have women banging on your door the moment you hang your shingle out for business.

So, what does it take to make it as a straight male companion in this new millennium? Glad you asked! Pull up a chair and I'll share with you the formula for success in three easy lessons.

Lesson One: Develop a genuine interest in women. Oh, now you're thinking like a man. Instead, think about the issues women face on a daily basis. Cultivate an understanding about what challenges a womans piece of mind simply because shes a woman. Understand her point of view, even when it differs from your own. Be willing to listen to her concerns, because her reality is very different from your own. Compliments are lovely, but a woman truly feels complimented when you listen and reflect back to her, in your own words, her meaning.

First Test: Are you willing to acquire the skills of a therapist and the camaraderie of a best girlfriend? Excellent! You've passed lesson one. Being able to relate to a woman is something at which a courtesan excels.

Lesson Two: Cultivate an attractive physical appearance and an urbane charisma. Of course, a gym membership is a must, as is a wardrobe suitable for any occasion for which you are called. Yes, real men get manicures and pedicures; women take notice of an immaculately groomed man. Yes you are charming, articulate, and well-read, else you wouldnt be considering a profession as a companion. Also consider, you must be comfortable in an intimate setting for two, as well as able to hold your own at a party attended by successful plastic surgeons, politicians, or lawyers. Oh, and all the while manage your date's insecurities.

Second Test: Can you go with the flow, think on your feet, and stay attuned to the comfort of your date all the while? Congratulations! You made it through lesson two. Ensuring your ladys state of relaxed enjoyment is a skill at which an escort is most proficient.

Lesson Three: Create a business plan. Yes, the business of pleasure is, after all, a business. Before committing to this venture, write a plan and determine your advertising budget. Build a website that presents a classy image while focusing on both search engine optimization and cross-platform coding.  A favorable impression, especially in this business, is a decided edge.

Third Test: Are you willing to maintain your day job while cultivating a clientele? Outstanding! Understanding the market you are entering and keeping abreast of the provider-to-patron ratio is what the clever companion does well.

So, there you have it, the winning formula to becoming a successful male escort:
  • Be part therapist and part best girlfriend friend who can empathize with the issues that threaten a womens piece of mind.
  • Project the image of a wordily gentleman with refined social skills.
  • Run your business with a head for marketing, the charisma for closing a sale, and a body for sin.




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« Reply #1 on: March 06, 2012, 06:44:53 PM »

Kat, you sexy kitten, excellent article!

You've wrote about both side of the coins and it takes quite a mind to do that.
Kuddos to your writing skills!
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« Reply #2 on: March 06, 2012, 07:07:05 PM »

 /joker
Kat, you sexy kitten, excellent article!

You've wrote about both side of the coins and it takes quite a mind to do that.
Kuddos to your writing skills!
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Thank you! I had fun writing it.

Correction:  . . . challenges a womans peace of mind simply because shes a woman.
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« Reply #3 on: March 07, 2012, 08:50:54 AM »

Over a year ago, I researched and wrote an article about what it would take for a man to break into the demimonde. For reasons no longer important the article remained unpublished, until now. This article, one of two, is the vehicle that let me entertain the idea of connecting with a companion of my very own.



You've been visualizing visiting exotic locals in the lap of luxury, on someone else's dime. Fantasizing about the great sex, thinking if you played your cards right you'd satisfy a different woman every night.

Think again.

I hate to be the one to burst your bubble, but the business of male companions for women is still a fledgling one. Sure, women have made great progress in their sexual self-actualization, but that doesn't mean you'll have women banging on your door the moment you hang your shingle out for business.

So, what does it take to make it as a straight male companion in this new millennium? Glad you asked! Pull up a chair and I'll share with you the formula for success in three easy lessons.

Lesson One: Develop a genuine interest in women. Oh, now you're thinking like a man. Instead, think about the issues women face on a daily basis. Cultivate an understanding about what challenges a womans piece of mind simply because shes a woman. Understand her point of view, even when it differs from your own. Be willing to listen to her concerns, because her reality is very different from your own. Compliments are lovely, but a woman truly feels complimented when you listen and reflect back to her, in your own words, her meaning.

First Test: Are you willing to acquire the skills of a therapist and the camaraderie of a best girlfriend? Excellent! You've passed lesson one. Being able to relate to a woman is something at which a courtesan excels.

Lesson Two: Cultivate an attractive physical appearance and an urbane charisma. Of course, a gym membership is a must, as is a wardrobe suitable for any occasion for which you are called. Yes, real men get manicures and pedicures; women take notice of an immaculately groomed man. Yes you are charming, articulate, and well-read, else you wouldnt be considering a profession as a companion. Also consider, you must be comfortable in an intimate setting for two, as well as able to hold your own at a party attended by successful plastic surgeons, politicians, or lawyers. Oh, and all the while manage your date's insecurities.

Second Test: Can you go with the flow, think on your feet, and stay attuned to the comfort of your date all the while? Congratulations! You made it through lesson two. Ensuring your ladys state of relaxed enjoyment is a skill at which an escort is most proficient.

Lesson Three: Create a business plan. Yes, the business of pleasure is, after all, a business. Before committing to this venture, write a plan and determine your advertising budget. Build a website that presents a classy image while focusing on both search engine optimization and cross-platform coding.  A favorable impression, especially in this business, is a decided edge.

Third Test: Are you willing to maintain your day job while cultivating a clientele? Outstanding! Understanding the market you are entering and keeping abreast of the provider-to-patron ratio is what the clever companion does well.

So, there you have it, the winning formula to becoming a successful male escort:
  • Be part therapist and part best girlfriend friend who can empathize with the issues that threaten a womens piece of mind.
  • Project the image of a wordily gentleman with refined social skills.
  • Run your business with a head for marketing, the charisma for closing a sale, and a body for sin.






Amazing reflection and outlook on women. Period. I am vastly looking forward in reading more into your thoughts, predicaments, and self-awareness Kat.

 /cheekkiss

-Logan Wright
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« Reply #4 on: March 07, 2012, 02:12:52 PM »


Amazing reflection and outlook on women. Period. I am vastly looking forward in reading more into your thoughts, predicaments, and self-awareness Kat.

 /cheekkiss

-Logan Wright
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Thanks Logan. I feel the love  /heart
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« Reply #5 on: March 25, 2012, 12:18:41 PM »

This was highly insightful. I look forward to reading more.
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« Reply #6 on: March 25, 2012, 08:51:55 PM »

Brilliantly written!

I appreciate this insight on how to become the best companion possible. One can never do much self improvement. Have you read or listened to the audio " How to win friends and influence people "? I am currently listening to it for the second go around. Absolutely a must read for anyone that would like to have an amazing relationship or relationships!
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« Reply #7 on: September 02, 2012, 05:58:48 PM »

...very ,very good... /cheers...save the rest for your best selling book...fifty shades of grey is about to have some competition... ;)...seriously...
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« Reply #8 on: September 02, 2012, 06:04:45 PM »

Thanks, Gotham.

Book, huh? Hmm, I give that some thought. Any ideas for a title?
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« Reply #9 on: September 02, 2012, 06:08:59 PM »

I have just read this for the first time Kat, well done!

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« Reply #10 on: September 02, 2012, 06:16:34 PM »

I have just read this for the first time Kat, well done!

She's one smart kitty!
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« Reply #11 on: September 02, 2012, 06:29:30 PM »

Thank you, Tilly. Have you seen the companion article http://conciergedumonde.com/forum/index.php?topic=1038.0?

There is a lot to this parallel world. I like delving into it's depths. I think mainstream, middle-class women could tap into this world and benefit from all it has to offer. It appears to have catalytic effect on a women's sense of self.

Maybe this world is worth promoting as a avenue of self-care: just as excercise, vitimin suppliments, facials & massages, mani/pedi; things that make us feel good about ourselves. I don't know, but it's something I think about.
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« Reply #12 on: September 02, 2012, 06:32:12 PM »

She's one smart kitty!

Thank you, Max. Muaaaah!
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« Reply #13 on: September 02, 2012, 06:37:21 PM »

Thank you, Tilly. Have you seen the companion article http://conciergedumonde.com/forum/index.php?topic=1038.0?

There is a lot to this parallel world. I like delving into it's depths. I think mainstream, middle-class women could tap into this world and benefit from all it has to offer. It appears to have catalytic effect on a women's sense of self.

Maybe this world is worth promoting as a avenue of self-care: just as excercise, vitimin suppliments, facials & massages, mani/pedi; things that make us feel good about ourselves. I don't know, but it's something I think about.

Yes I read it.  Also a companion makes you do those self care things anyway.  Gives you a little bit of an incentive rather than just bumbling along as you may have been for years :)
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« Reply #14 on: September 02, 2012, 06:45:25 PM »

Yes I read it.  Also a companion makes you do those self care things anyway.  Gives you a little bit of an incentive rather than just bumbling along as you may have been for years :)

Yes! Very insightful, Tilly. I know exactly what you mean.
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