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« Reply #15 on: September 03, 2012, 06:51:28 PM »

Thanks, Gotham.

Book, huh? Hmm, I give that some thought. Any ideas for a title?

"True confessions of an internet madame" - by Trinity Torrid   /LOL
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« Reply #16 on: September 03, 2012, 07:09:11 PM »

...seriously..." Concierge: The male companion's guide to the Art of Seduction."
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« Reply #17 on: September 03, 2012, 07:28:44 PM »

Mine will be a series

"Better Living Through Flattery"
"Graduate Level Flattery"
"Legendary Flattery"

Accompanied of course by webinars, virtual book signings, and VIP one-on-one lessons.
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« Reply #18 on: September 21, 2012, 07:22:37 PM »

Thanks, Gotham.

Book, huh? Hmm, I give that some thought. Any ideas for a title?

"Success: in plain sight" Inconspicuous title yet it holds an air of idiocracy.  If you are bold enough add a sub title A guide for male companions

Easy to market and straight to the point. You can even have a series "Success: in plain sight" A guide female companions, A guide for college students.  LOL I am taking this title brainstorming a little too serious.
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« Reply #19 on: September 21, 2012, 07:44:31 PM »

A series?
I'm flattered

Wait - You're flirting with me again, aren't you.
Don't
stop

 /joker
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« Reply #20 on: September 22, 2012, 11:55:12 PM »

A series?
I'm flattered

Wait - You're flirting with me again, aren't you.
Don't
stop

 /joker
/ROTFL any chance I have!
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« Reply #21 on: February 11, 2014, 09:28:34 PM »


First Test: Are you willing to acquire the skills of a therapist and the camaraderie of a best girlfriend? Excellent! You've passed lesson one. Being able to relate to a woman is something at which a courtesan excels.

a gym membership is a must

Third Test: Are you willing to maintain your day job while cultivating a clientele? Outstanding! Understanding the market you are entering and keeping abreast of the provider-to-patron ratio is what the clever companion does well.

So, there you have it, the winning formula to becoming a successful male escort:
  • Be part therapist and part best girlfriend friend who can empathize with the issues that threaten a womens piece of mind.



Very interesting and detailed list Kat.

I found myself in the quotes I've mentioned. It is nice to see that I'm in my element.

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« Reply #22 on: February 11, 2014, 10:11:48 PM »

 /cheerleader Excellent
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« Reply #23 on: January 12, 2015, 06:39:45 AM »

Kat, this is beautifully articulated. Thank you!

Duly noted!

To summarise... (and please correct if I have it wrong...)

A best friend who can listen, empathise and advise (if requested).
A 'gentleman' who can impress with his grooming, scent, physicality & impressive etiquette,not to mention never ending attention to his date.
Someone intelligent enough to incite stimulating conversation whilst smoothly coordinating a seamless transition between the cold to the warm to the hot! (Assuming that is part of the agreement of course!)
Someone who can build trust and rapport so as to invite physical comfort and who can then follow through with the physical skill, patience & focus with which to facilitate a womans titillation.. and potentially complete surrender...

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« Reply #24 on: January 12, 2015, 08:28:05 PM »

You've scored an A+ on the written exam, Gentleman James!
Now, for the practical application lab...  /cheerleader
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« Reply #25 on: January 22, 2015, 02:55:10 PM »

Thanks Kat! I found this article really great! I liked what for me was an unexpected twist at the end about having a mind for business!
again,more to mull!
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« Reply #26 on: January 22, 2015, 05:23:55 PM »

Glad you enjoyed it  /cheerleader
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« Reply #27 on: January 23, 2015, 02:59:47 AM »

Awesome article Kat! I love both the thought you have put into a (great) Companion's qualities as well as exposing the discerning patrons' expectations from a woman's perspective! Thank you!

I find that the role of a companion is particularly reliant upon an acute perception & sharpened intuition, combined with an 'ever the student' mindset. While it makes it easier when a client knows (and can express) what they want to feel/experience, many don't, and even when they think they do, it may and often does, change at a moment's notice. Each of my clients teach me something new, both about women, about life, and about myself.

An enthusiasm for understanding & supporting women in their own personal growth, a developed ability to listen & empathise, equal comfort in a tuxedo or naked & the ability to know when to hold a client's hand and when to pull her hair, assists greatly. The humility to never be too 'cocky' and always know, there is always more to learn, and more honing of skill to acquire, is a gift that clients' recognise and respect.

The intelligence & background to carry stimulating conversation, the charm & confidence to invite 'Nanna to dance' at their sister's wedding, and the comfort with ones self and ones ability to bridge the experience, to either leave a date at the door wanting more, or tearing off clothes at the end of the night certainly helps also. A client won't give a companion a 'prescription' or run sheet, often expecting a certain 'spontaneity'. The ability to create this and improvise, seems to work a charm :)

It is most certainly not the 'glamorous' job some may expect or hope it to be. In fact, in can be quite tiring.. mentally, emotionally, and obviously physically. A good companion diarises their own down time prior to booking any clients and draws strong boundaries as required. My advice to anyone considering this work would be to ensure they possess a GENUINE love of women, an appreciation of women's insecurities (without being told), an openness, humility & anti ego attachment, as well as the organisation skill to put in the required research and the time to be adequately prepared in each unique case. Drawing satisfaction from the growth and confidence development of women is a bonus, as if one goes into it for the sex or money, they will not only be disappointed, but will also likely develop themselves a poor reputation fairly rapidly.

As you mentioned, remaining in a 'job' as long as it takes to recognise that there is a transition is a benefit. Clients certainly don't come beating down the door as soon as your website goes live, and nor can one be certain that it will be a role that will be 'for them' nor one they can maintain the stamina, preparation, exercise/lifestyle routine, research, and ability to 'chameleon oneself' as required for the long term. Clients wont always be 'attracted to you' and a detachment from the ego 'hit' around this can make or break the sustainable and successful companion from his flash in the pan, disillusioned colleague.

Thanks again Kat, much appreciated!  /clap2
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« Reply #28 on: January 24, 2015, 10:08:45 AM »

I just have to say...well said James!  A+ post!

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« Reply #29 on: January 24, 2015, 10:21:57 AM »

I've said it before on this forum and I'll say it again, Rupert Everett's character in "My Best Friend's Wedding", if he were straight, would be perfection to me in a companion.

1.  He was gorgeous to look at in that movie
2.  Distinguished and sexy voice
3.  Suave, lovely fashion sense
4.  Did you see that haircut?
5.  Nurturing and supportive and comforting
6.  There when you need him
7.  Witty and fun and sometimes silly
8.  Great dancer
9.  Always makes you feel important and special
10. Fun!

If he would have been straight, he would have been unstoppable as far as women are concerned.  He would have been, as John Mayer said of Jessica Simpson, "sexual napalm".

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