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« Reply #30 on: January 24, 2015, 06:36:39 PM »
Quote from: Kat O'9Tales on January 12, 2015, 08:28:05 PM
You've scored an A+ on the written exam, Gentleman James!
Now, for the practical application lab...  /cheerleader

Practical application lab? I am intrigued as to what that might involve, and particularly the KPIs lovely Kat!  ;)
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« Reply #31 on: January 24, 2015, 11:05:09 PM »
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Practical application lab? I am intrigued as to what that might involve, and particularly the KPIs

Interesting proposal, James. What might my KPI be? What might I measure and how might I measure it? Aside from the obvious innuendo, of course. Hmmm, it's looking like a little research is in order, huh?

Practical Application - the use of something for a reasonable purpose. Theoretical knowledge is something that you think is correct in theory. Practical application means how you use it. Albert Einstein's theory about splitting atoms was theoretical knowledge. The practical application was the atomic bomb.

KPI - A set of quantifiable measures that a company or industry uses to gauge or compare performance in terms of meeting their strategic and operational goals. KPIs vary between companies and industries, depending on their priorities or performance criteria.

Rubric - a guide listing specific criteria for grading or scoring academic papers, projects, etc.
http://www.cmu.edu/teaching/designteach/teach/rubrics.html

All righty, then. This is looking like it could quite possibly become a new thread. I'm thinking that a Rubric might be a better tool to define, quantify, and score. This has possibilities.
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« Reply #32 on: January 25, 2015, 11:33:38 PM »
Quote from: Kat O'9Tales on January 24, 2015, 11:05:09 PM
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Practical application lab? I am intrigued as to what that might involve, and particularly the KPIs

Interesting proposal, James. What might my KPI be? What might I measure and how might I measure it? Aside from the obvious innuendo, of course. Hmmm, it's looking like a little research is in order, huh?

Practical Application - the use of something for a reasonable purpose. Theoretical knowledge is something that you think is correct in theory. Practical application means how you use it. Albert Einstein's theory about splitting atoms was theoretical knowledge. The practical application was the atomic bomb.

KPI - A set of quantifiable measures that a company or industry uses to gauge or compare performance in terms of meeting their strategic and operational goals. KPIs vary between companies and industries, depending on their priorities or performance criteria.

Rubric - a guide listing specific criteria for grading or scoring academic papers, projects, etc.
http://www.cmu.edu/teaching/designteach/teach/rubrics.html

All righty, then. This is looking like it could quite possibly become a new thread. I'm thinking that a Rubric might be a better tool to define, quantify, and score. This has possibilities.

Hmm I daresay some research may WELL be in order on this one!

Your definitions are very well.. definitive!

In terms of a 'practical application' for that which we can only theorise on a forum about.. would be difficult would it not? Hence my request for KPIs...

KPIs of course, would be relative dependant on the client, the situation, whatever fantasy or situation is being played out and what goals one is hoping to achieve for a 'date'.

A rubric on the other hand... now THAT may hold some possibility for comparative data analysis!

I am intruiged as to where your thoughts are headed with this... perhaps I have created a monster!.. or... perhaps a whole new way in which ladies can qualify potential gents based on their own scoring system?! OOH!
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« Reply #33 on: January 26, 2015, 06:10:58 AM »
Quote from: Kat O'9Tales on September 02, 2012, 06:29:30 PM
Thank you, Tilly. Have you seen the companion article http://conciergedumonde.com/forum/index.php?topic=1038.0?

There is a lot to this parallel world. I like delving into it's depths. I think mainstream, middle-class women could tap into this world and benefit from all it has to offer. It appears to have catalytic effect on a women's sense of self.

Maybe this world is worth promoting as a avenue of self-care: just as excercise, vitimin suppliments, facials & massages, mani/pedi; things that make us feel good about ourselves. I don't know, but it's something I think about.

Well articulated Kat, these kinds of comparisons come up a lot in my conversations with clients, especially new ones.Taking care of ourselves takes all sorts of forms & is different for everyone of course, but why shouldn't that include honouring our sexuality (ie what we need, want, desire & crave)?

I see many women who have sadly been shut down over many years, and for many reasons. Sometimes a companion can provide the best therapy in self care if this is an area where a woman feels she needs the nurturing, 'love' and care that a (good) companion can provide. I work on this being a modus operandi for my business, and love nothing more than witnessing a woman valuing herself enough to 'self care' as much as possible and in every way possible! Thank you for raising it!!  /cheerleader
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« Reply #34 on: January 26, 2015, 06:26:28 AM »
Quote from: Pennylover on January 24, 2015, 10:21:57 AM
I've said it before on this forum and I'll say it again, Rupert Everett's character in "My Best Friend's Wedding", if he were straight, would be perfection to me in a companion.

1.  He was gorgeous to look at in that movie
2.  Distinguished and sexy voice
3.  Suave, lovely fashion sense
4.  Did you see that haircut?
5.  Nurturing and supportive and comforting
6.  There when you need him
7.  Witty and fun and sometimes silly
8.  Great dancer
9.  Always makes you feel important and special
10. Fun!

If he would have been straight, he would have been unstoppable as far as women are concerned.  He would have been, as John Mayer said of Jessica Simpson, "sexual napalm".

Ari

I am starting to feel as though I have had far too much to say on this thread... though the more I read through it, the more it inspires me to share.. Apologies if anyone is getting 'GJ Fatigue' at this point....  /rolleye

Ari, I had to add here that I think Rupert Everetts character in My Best Friend's Wedding is most womens sexual napalm (though my wife would argue that Chris Noth's character in SATC possesses far more intrigue, mystery & sex appeal... but hey! therein lies the beauty of all of us being different  ;)

As I hum 'From the moment I wake up.. before I put on my makeup...' I recall my favourite line from that movie is the one right at the end when Rupert shows up for her.. suave, intuitive & reliable as ever.. and says something akin to 'there may not be love, there may not be sex!... But by God, there WILL be dancing!' and sweeps her onto the dance floor. Absolutely awesome! (I don't think Mr Big is quite that smooth personally haha)

I actually saw Rupert narrating a documentary recently about sex work around the world. It was in 2 parts.. the first interviewing sex workers (men & women) and the second interviewing regular clientele. It was very interesting to see the broad difference in attitude, passion, satisfaction etc between the workers who did it 'because they must feed their family' and the escorts of said 'higher status' (by societies standards). I personally like to think that one has to do it for the passion and satisfaction, as any other reason will only rob one of their sense of self and their ability to provide a valuable service. That is, after all, what its all about  ;D
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« Reply #35 on: January 26, 2015, 09:34:04 PM »
This was SO my story.  I literally hadn't had sex for YEARS.  It shocks me to say it, but it's true.  Then something changed -- I hit a highly significant birthday and decided that I was DONE waiting!  But I wasn't sure where to go.  I'm a well-known person in a small town, so a FWB wasn't an option.  And I wanted to be with someone who really know what they were doing, who could make me feel sexy and beautiful.  So I found an escort, it has totally changed my life!  I feel awesome and fully alive.  Everything has changed, even the way I dress.  Without at doubt, the best money i have ever spent on myself. 
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« Reply #36 on: January 27, 2015, 01:19:55 AM »
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This was SO my story.  I literally hadn't had sex for YEARS.  It shocks me to say it, but it's true.  Then something changed -- I hit a highly significant birthday and decided that I was DONE waiting!  But I wasn't sure where to go.  I'm a well-known person in a small town, so a FWB wasn't an option.  And I wanted to be with someone who really know what they were doing, who could make me feel sexy and beautiful.  So I found an escort, it has totally changed my life!  I feel awesome and fully alive.  Everything has changed, even the way I dress.  Without at doubt, the best money i have ever spent on myself. 


Kudos to you Ceddie! It must have taken real courage for you make that jump, and I am so pleased to hear how well it went for you! It is a common phenomenon for women to feel this way, and to report massive change in their lives and within themselves! I know most companions would hear this too, and I must say, Self worth, a spring in your step & feeling beautiful & comfy in your own skin will be maintained long after the money is forgotten  /clap2
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« Reply #37 on: January 27, 2015, 09:22:10 PM »
Thank you, Kind Sir!  I have to say I am having so much fun now!!

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« Reply #38 on: January 29, 2015, 08:17:22 PM »
GJ,

You nailed it!  Suave, intuitive, reliable -- that's what we all want.  And dancing sure doesn't hurt.

Ari
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« Reply #39 on: February 09, 2015, 11:50:14 PM »
Follow this formula when casually interacting with everyone and it will be like second-nature when applying it to interaction with clients. Not only does following the formula during everyday living produce wonderful energy, it's practice for when it's time to put your money where your mouth is.
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« Reply #40 on: February 16, 2015, 07:27:48 PM »
This is fantastic, Kat! Thank you for sharing. :)
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« Reply #41 on: February 18, 2015, 12:31:39 AM »
Thanks  /cheerleader
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« Reply #42 on: February 22, 2015, 07:26:06 PM »
Quote from: Gentleman James on January 27, 2015, 01:19:55 AM
It is a common phenomenon for women to feel this way, and to report massive change in their lives and within themselves!

Totally agree there.

It seems to be on thing bringing an other. They hire us, they get positive attention, they start to realize their own worth, then they start taking better care of themselves because they now know they're worth it, they get more positive attention, it reinforces their perception of their own worth... an so on. It's a it's a self reinforcing positive circle. It's something that can be started alone, but which is much easier with outside help, especially a good companion's positive influence.
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« Reply #43 on: February 23, 2015, 11:55:04 PM »
It seems to be on thing bringing an other. They hire us, they get positive attention, they start to realize their own worth, then they start taking better care of themselves because they now know they're worth it, they get more positive attention, it reinforces their perception of their own worth... an so on. It's a it's a self reinforcing positive circle. It's something that can be started alone, but which is much easier with outside help, especially a good companion's positive influence.
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Completely agree Max, often a companion can provide a 'circuit break' to old negative patterns and beliefs about self. Every woman is 'worth' love, attention, nurturing & positive male attention (not to mention ridiculous amounts of pleasure if that is what she is looking for too!)  /thumbsup
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« Reply #44 on: February 24, 2015, 11:24:29 AM »
Quote from: Gentleman James on February 23, 2015, 11:55:04 PM
not to mention ridiculous amounts of pleasure if that is what she is looking for too!

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