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« on: March 25, 2012, 12:21:28 PM »

In order to keep my business life and personal life separate. Should I start working under a different name? Even though this business is already discrete.
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« Reply #1 on: March 25, 2012, 02:59:09 PM »

In my opinion, I don't think it really matters. Unless you answer the phone under an assumed alias already, it's your own decision really.

I would say you should have a personal phone line and a business line. Keep work and life separately. But an assumed name? Sure. Find something that accentuates your personality.
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« Reply #2 on: March 25, 2012, 03:45:43 PM »

I have a work name, because there's a few things I won't share with a patron, that being one. Other important things: day and month of birth.

I would say you should have a personal phone line and a business line. Keep work and life separately.

That's a must, IMO.

I only use the phone when on D day. The rest of the time, I use Skype.
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« Reply #3 on: March 25, 2012, 03:51:51 PM »

I agree with Logan! I don't believe using your first name is a big deal. Try not to give out your s.s. # though...lol!!!
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« Reply #4 on: March 25, 2012, 05:00:45 PM »

My approach is a little different. I don't always give out my real name but if I am spending a fair amount of time communicating with a lady and certainly if I'm going to spend a fair amount of time with one then I both expect their real name and give out mine. Yes, there is a safety issue in not giving my name out ..... however on an extended date there is a greater safety issue in NOT knowing names. I feel that way both on the Alex side of things and if I choose to be the patron.

I used to have multiple phones and realized the number of ladies I see is fairly small that it made no sense. If I ever really need a second line I use a second line I have access to or just get a tracphone with a cheap plan.

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« Reply #5 on: March 25, 2012, 06:44:43 PM »

A very valid point, Alex. Being secure in the knowledge that the charming person with whom you are conversing is neither a con artist nor an ax murder does tend to reduce ones anxiety level a notch or six.
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« Reply #6 on: March 26, 2012, 06:17:23 AM »

In order to keep my business life and personal life separate. Should I start working under a different name? Even though this business is already discrete.

Damond, in seven years in the business, not one of my clients ever knew my real name.

Having said that, Alex makes a few good points.
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« Reply #7 on: March 26, 2012, 08:16:04 AM »

My approach is a little different. I don't always give out my real name but if I am spending a fair amount of time communicating with a lady and certainly if I'm going to spend a fair amount of time with one then I both expect their real name and give out mine. Yes, there is a safety issue in not giving my name out ..... however on an extended date there is a greater safety issue in NOT knowing names. I feel that way both on the Alex side of things and if I choose to be the patron.

I used to have multiple phones and realized the number of ladies I see is fairly small that it made no sense. If I ever really need a second line I use a second line I have access to or just get a tracphone with a cheap plan.

My 2 cents.

Very interesting Alex.......  :)

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« Reply #8 on: March 26, 2012, 05:45:57 PM »

In my view, a name as little value. If you can tell who you're going to meet by exchanging by email and phone before you meet, you better not meet that person or keep it brief (an hour is brief) and public (a restaurant will do fine).

I've met a lot of people hiking, eating and having long conversation late at night in a number of refuge... always fun, never got to learn any name. The exchange and the people were far more important. The moment. For some reason, nobody ever ask name, or very rarely. Once I realized what I had done, I made a point of asking the next time, but I soon realized that it was pointless and unimportant.  :)
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« Reply #9 on: March 31, 2012, 09:33:35 PM »

Hi ladies and gents,

     I definetly wasn't trying to knock my competition. I don't any of the other providers and even if any of them are competing for the same market. We all live in different areas I'm sure. I guess i should rephrase my question;)..

   I was told that if I participated in this forum consistently for a month or so that i would be accepted as featured escort. All I wanted to do really was get the attention of concierge du monde and find out "what does a guy have to do to be accepted as a featured escort".

      I don't take offense to anyone's comments, I put it out there for a reason /joker! I may of deserved some of them but if you ever get to know me, I'm as sweet and thoughtful as they come. ( just a little frustrated with the customer service).

   Thanks for the personal message and concern kat, very sweet of you! Glad to have all of you participate, whether your comments were positive or not so positive /clap2

Lots of love and kind regards,
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« Reply #10 on: September 29, 2012, 02:43:46 PM »

I am resurrecting this old thread as it intrigues me. How many of you out there give out your first name to either a companion or a lady?  I think if I was in long term communication I would hope that a companion would at least trust me with their first name but I would never ask. As patrons or whatever we are we put a great deal of trust in the companions we see, some information is expected and given freely. Do you think it should go both ways.

Also, I'm waiting to see if a new companion pops up with the name Christian Grey /LOL
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« Reply #11 on: September 29, 2012, 03:48:01 PM »

Quote from: Matilda link=topic=1082.msg21276#msg21276 date=13489550

Also, I'm waiting to see if a new companion pops up with the name Christian Grey /LOL
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Lucky for me I found a companion skilled an willing to indulge me in that particular fantasy.

Or, did you mean something else?
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« Reply #12 on: September 29, 2012, 04:37:04 PM »

Lol. Not for the fantasy, more to see if anyone is brave enough to take on that particular marketing opportunity.  /LOL
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« Reply #13 on: September 29, 2012, 05:37:25 PM »

Oops. Boy, are my cheeks red.  
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« Reply #14 on: September 29, 2012, 05:39:51 PM »

Oops. Boy, are my cheeks red.  

I'm sure not /ROTFL
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