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« Reply #15 on: August 20, 2009, 04:49:20 PM »

if you have a big cock and no charisma that can easily count for nothing

That goes without saying. ;) Been there, done that.

It's even worse if it's the opposite and still no charisma. Also been there, done that. :(
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« Reply #16 on: August 20, 2009, 04:53:56 PM »

Too think that some women don't enjoy the company of hung escorts is being presumptious at best.

I'll have to disagree with that, judging from my own experience. I've been with someone "hung". He wasn't an escort, but I will say he was a pro, and a famous one at that. I got more aroused cleaning my toilet LOL. But if a lady has been with a gentleman who is well-endowed and was in bed, then she won the sexual jackpot, as far as I'm concerned.

But...if a lady does think that's important, by all means, you could discreetly offer to describe the package and let her get a glimpse of Pandora's box, if she so desires. ;)
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« Reply #17 on: August 20, 2009, 08:47:17 PM »

Mentioning your genitals is a turn-off. Completely. For one thing, no matter your size, I'm assuming you have had enough sexual experience to know how to handle all situations (otherwise you wouldn't be a professional, right?). Secondly, just like Holly said, men who mention their size appeal to other men because men care about size. Women very rarely do.

Assuming you're trying to hit a certain level of clientele, don't mention your endowment. It speaks volumes about you but probably not the volumes you want.

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PS: Besides, no matter how big you are, there's always someone bigger. Trust me.
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« Reply #18 on: August 20, 2009, 10:34:40 PM »

I meant to say in my earlier post "was good in bed". I missed the "good". ;)

Couldn't have said it better myself, Amanda. I totally agree. ;D
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« Reply #19 on: August 21, 2009, 01:38:51 AM »

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PS: Besides, no matter how big you are, there's always someone bigger. Trust me.

Definitely, but I've been doing my research and haven't found anyone larger in the escorting world.

I knew this was a be a prickly subject and I hope people don't think badly of me for bringing it up.  It's not down to be being a sniggering schoolboy or someone who completely doesn't understand women, it's just that there are lot of issues to consider when creating an online presence.

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« Reply #20 on: August 21, 2009, 06:11:49 AM »

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PS: Besides, no matter how big you are, there's always someone bigger. Trust me.

Definitely, but I've been doing my research and haven't found anyone larger in the escorting world.

I knew this was a be a prickly subject and I hope people don't think badly of me for bringing it up.  It's not down to be being a sniggering schoolboy or someone who completely doesn't understand women, it's just that there are lot of issues to consider when creating an online presence.


This is true. I don't think of you as a "sniggering schoolboy", your points are all perfectly valid. :)

Endowment is certainly one of them for some women. It's just like women's boobs. Some guys like them big, some guys don't care, some like them small, so I can see where you're coming from. Different strokes for different folks. ;)
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« Reply #21 on: August 21, 2009, 07:38:24 AM »

If most of the male escorts out there don't actually mention their size (and it's not in photos), then you really have no idea if you're the largest male escort out there or not.

I've had clients with some huge surprises and guess what? I do NOT want to know about it beforehand. Not only that sex for money is illegal but it's such a turn-off. It's much more fun when you know and like the person before having the moment of unveiling. Yes, some have said that women were put off by their size. While I understand that could happen to you too, the mystique of being a paid companion AND your skills (social/sexual) should carry the moment without any issues. (I think far more problems would result from you being a professional with a very small penis.)

To be really blunt, a woman is capable of giving birth with the same organs she has sex with. I doubt you're bigger than a baby's head. Any issues a woman has with your size would be due to your lack of getting her suitably aroused or her own ignorance of what her body is capable of. In both instances, you're responsible for carrying the moment -- which is what you should be able to do as a professional.

If you're truly donkey-sized, give serious consideration to going into porn, if you haven't already.

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« Reply #22 on: August 21, 2009, 07:56:08 AM »

It must be that time of the month for me again.

Perhaps you should try the decaff and be a little less condescending in your tone towards the gentleman Amanda?
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« Reply #23 on: August 21, 2009, 08:48:18 AM »

Hi Bucephalus,

I'd agree with Cole that it's perfectly fine to allude to your 'generous endowment', in a subtle, romantic way, maybe a few paragraphs down in your copy, as you're describing the intimate experience you offer your client.  As an erotic author I know that my readers (especially my Playgirl Posse gals)always appreciate a full description of the man I'm writing about, that part included!:) Your choice, of course, but personally I think a subtly worded reference would be fine.

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« Reply #24 on: August 21, 2009, 09:05:38 AM »

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PS: Besides, no matter how big you are, there's always someone bigger. Trust me.

Definitely, but I've been doing my research and haven't found anyone larger in the escorting world.

I knew this was a be a prickly subject and I hope people don't think badly of me for bringing it up.  It's not down to be being a sniggering schoolboy or someone who completely doesn't understand women, it's just that there are lot of issues to consider when creating an online presence.



I think it is a very valid point and needs this discussion, whichever way the talk goes. It can be emotional.

One should not get confused between the online dating sites that have potential suitors displaying wares - virtually every woman I've spoken to about this finds it a turn off. Women have to be turned on and then they like the next stage - unseen but left to the imagination.

Having said that when I had my photos done for my site, the photographer (22 year old Dutch girl) was fairly insistent about more showing. I do however prefer to err on the side of discretion and the ones that don't show too much are bad enough.  :(

I think elements of the more everyday elements women can relate to and look for - charm, a smile, fun. It's not a dating site so no need to be too serious - there is the business arrangement that needs to be handled at least as carefully.

If requested then send a photo if you are going to - but probably best to leave the element of anticipation.

I you have it all, don't over do it.

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A client of mine once hired someone cheaper - he turned up to her place and asked if she minded him removing his legs (he was an amputee).  :-X I don't think events progressed (if that's the right adverb?) beyond nothing getting off. He even said he'd "do it for free." I assumed (leg over?) he already had enough discounted as it was. Now I'm not making fun of an amputee but an escort with this sort of problem may make things worse for the rest. Sort of x-rated Shakespeare, comic / tragic...

She was a nervous sort as it was. Unfortunately for me she found her ignition aftre a couple of occasions and found out how it all worked and proceeded to take home every spare male in the city... as she emailed me telling me so.  :-\

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« Reply #25 on: August 21, 2009, 11:06:38 AM »

As an erotic author I know that my readers (especially my Playgirl Posse gals)always appreciate a full description of the man I'm writing about, that part included!:)

They'd like to know all this before meeting a gent?

I think if I were reading a story, yes, I would be interested in such details. But it would still be a turn-off for me if I am looking for a man to take me out on the town.

Maybe I will do an informal survey of women I meet. Someone should do the same in NZ, UK, and anywhere else they live!  ;D

And Cole, I did not find Amanda's posts condescending at all. She's just giving her opinion.
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« Reply #26 on: August 21, 2009, 11:13:28 AM »

Cole,

A woman can disagree with anything she wants in spite of where her monthly cycle is.

Condescending? Not quite. More like rolling my eyes.

I've had sex with small/average men who hurt me because they didn't know how to have sex and very large men who were just fine because they DID know how to have sex. Large genitals don't make the sexual experience any more or less great -- it's all in the skill of the man.

But as a woman...reading any male talking about his size just makes me pass him over. Size is not a deciding factor in any of my relationships with men, it's not part of the important things that make a man GOOD (or worth paying for his company).   

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« Reply #27 on: August 21, 2009, 11:14:34 AM »

Oh...in a story though...I want to know all the details! A story is very different from a real human I might interact with.

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« Reply #28 on: August 21, 2009, 11:32:27 AM »

Amanda- I think Cole was referring to "his" monthly cycle and not a womans.

We all know that Cole's monthly cycle varies in distance but on the 1st Wednesday of every month he will cycle from the City of London, down to Brighton and back. No mean feat! ;D
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« Reply #29 on: August 21, 2009, 11:52:54 AM »

And all this fuss is about a guys Penis size?!  ???

I think I am going on that cycle ride James care to join me  ;D
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