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« on: March 06, 2015, 10:34:00 PM »

Hi there ladies and gents,

It's nice to find a community of sorts out there for male escorts, and one that is frequented by female clients as well.
It doesn't seem to be a big community, given the number of posts at the top of the page that date back several years. I wonder why that is. I know I discovered the site last year but just took an outside interest for a while. Maybe many male escorts think they work alone and no one understands them, not even other escorts.

I have been a male escort for a nearly three years now. I have been working for an agency in Australia - Aphrodisiac Male Escorts - since they started operating. I have testimonials and an article in Grazia going back two years and a number of other articles that have followed that.

I'm not a psychologist, but I am trying to run my escorting business like a therapy business. Yes, it's a business. Without doing it that way, you won't get anywhere for very long. A good therapist is one who a: understands and helps their clients and b: is able to acquire and retain new clients.

How do I do that? With great difficulty.
Well, through the agency it's actually quite easy. they come top on Google if you search 'male escort' when your location is Melbourne and near the top if you are in Sydney. If you find articles about straight male escorts in Australia you'll usually find them and often find me speaking. Grazia, The King's Tribune, The Good Weekend (national newspaper), Cosmo (they changed my name to 'Andrew'. Bastards), Reality Chicks, malibumom with Susanne Brisk (a US blog. I ended up having Skype sex in my agent's office at the end of the interview.)  and more.
Now I'm going out on my own. I've created my website - myintimateconfidant.com - I've got a blog - maleescortdiaries.com - and Twitter - @AnthonyByNight.
I've had training in Orgasmic Meditation, Basic BDSM Kink from a legend of the kink scene here and mindfulness.
I'm presenting a workshop in May for women - connecting with your desires. And I'm writing a book for women about female sexual desire.
I try to connect with women on Twitter. Not too much and only in ways that are authentic to me. You have to do things that are in line with your authentic self. You can't stray too far from that. e.g. I 'could' get into the BDSM scene if I thought I could make money out of it, but I don't really like hardcore BDSM that much, so I would get bored, feel uncomfortable, dislike myself and dislike my clients.
As it is, I love my job. Yes, it's a job, but it's a job that has real lasting benefits for some women. From victims of sexual abuse (as adults or children) who need a gentle caring hand to help them move on, to disabled clients who just want to feel normal, to divorcees and inexperienced women who need a confidence boost to women who just want an incredibly pleasurable sexual experience. I love it all. Whatever you do in life, enjoy it, don't endure it.
I do this honourably and with integrity. I am respected by my bosses (two normal housewives run the agency) and my clients. If they want to talk, we talk. If they want to ... well, you get the idea.

6 hours of bookings this week. The final two are tonight, 11pm-1am, after she's been to a musical. I have a bag of toys and goodies, but most of the time it's just the skill of listening and reading their bodies.

I also have an English accent. That goes down very well over here. I think an American one would as well. Women here don't tend to like Aussie blokes, so I get a lot of bookings.

Regards,

Anthony





 
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« Reply #1 on: March 07, 2015, 07:23:20 AM »

Welcome, Anthony.
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« Reply #2 on: March 07, 2015, 11:07:41 AM »

Welcome!  Every time I read about Australia and male escorts, I think to myself, I need to plan a vacation....

I find it very amusing that Aussie women don't want men with Aussie accents, since most American women that I know find the Aussie accent sexy as hell.  I chair a committee with an Aussie man on it, and, even though he's actually kind of an idiot, I just love to hear him talk.  I find myself asking him questions just to listen.  :)

Carin

PS I checked out your blog, and it's quite interesting.  Thanks for writing it!
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« Reply #3 on: March 07, 2015, 01:37:03 PM »

Hi Anthony. 

I wish you well on your independent contractor business.  I see I need to find time to go through your reading material. A glimpse here and there is interesting.

Welcome to our community.

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« Reply #4 on: March 07, 2015, 08:10:08 PM »

Welcome aboard, Anthony. :)
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« Reply #5 on: March 07, 2015, 08:27:22 PM »

Hello and Welcome  /cheerleader
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« Reply #6 on: March 07, 2015, 09:42:09 PM »

Hello Anthony, welcome to the forum :)
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« Reply #7 on: March 08, 2015, 12:14:30 AM »

Anthony, welcome /cheers. I have read several articles before, which were talking about your previous agency and yourself I believe. It seems that relatively there are more demand for straight male companion in Australia, considering we have ten time's population in US. Hope you enjoy your time here.
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« Reply #8 on: March 08, 2015, 09:15:39 AM »

Welcome Anthony.  I hope you enjoy your time here.

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« Reply #9 on: March 08, 2015, 10:50:47 AM »

Hi Anthony,


Welcome to CDM!
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« Reply #10 on: March 09, 2015, 01:47:31 AM »

That was a very experienced and informed introduction. I appreciate that. You've piqued my curiosity.
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« Reply #11 on: March 09, 2015, 03:18:21 AM »

Welcome!  Every time I read about Australia and male escorts, I think to myself, I need to plan a vacation....

I find it very amusing that Aussie women don't want men with Aussie accents, since most American women that I know find the Aussie accent sexy as hell.  I chair a committee with an Aussie man on it, and, even though he's actually kind of an idiot, I just love to hear him talk.  I find myself asking him questions just to listen.  :)

Carin

PS I checked out your blog, and it's quite interesting.  Thanks for writing it!

Thanks. Maybe it's the foreigner thing. Back in the UK my accent went pretty unnoticed. It was neither offensive nor attractive. Here, it goes down well.
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« Reply #12 on: March 09, 2015, 03:22:25 AM »

And thank you for the welcomes. I'm going to start fishing around the forum to learn more about the people who do this. We had the male escort Christmas party in early December where I met the other 6 guys that work for the agency. It's nice to meet others that do this and a pleasant surprise to see so many ladies engaging on here. I wasn't expecting that. 
Chat soon,
Anthony :-)
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« Reply #13 on: March 10, 2015, 07:51:32 AM »

Welcome to this little community Anthony!
And great intro, BTW.
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