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« on: August 03, 2015, 09:35:13 PM »

Hi Everyone,

I am new to cdm and am very exited to have found this site. I am a 50 year old married woman living near the center of Melbourne, Australia. I have not yet engaged an escort, but I have been considering doing so during the past six months. I am married and very much in love with my beautiful husband who makes me smile everyday. However my husband is A-sexual whereas I enjoy sex very much. My husband and I have had detailed discussions about my hiring a male escort as a means of my being able to express and experience the parts of myself that I currently am not able to and he totally supports me in this venture. I hope that hiring a male escort might be a good solution for us. The last thing I want to do is put him under pressure or try to change him, neither do I see any sense in my sacrificing my need for fun. I'd really appreciate some help and feedback, what do others think about what I've proposed above? And if I decided which would be the best way to go hiring an independent escort or going through an agency.

Appreciating all advise in advance
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« Reply #1 on: August 03, 2015, 09:50:14 PM »

Hi and welcome Butterfly!

The situation you describe is not uncommon and that's where a professional is usually is an excellent option since it leaves out the complications that could be had with the usual affairs.

You'll see a lot of helpful information throughout this forum, but don't hesitate to ask questions by posting or by sending questions by private messages to members you feel comfortable with.

BTW, you'll see that there are various sections on this forum associated to various subjects. This section you wrote in, is the General section where we talk about a bit of everything. There's an introduction section where introductions are normally posted to. Don't worry, if Admin comes by, she'll move this thread to its proper place, if not, we're not worse for the wear.

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« Reply #2 on: August 03, 2015, 09:54:31 PM »

Hi Butterfly,

Welcome aboard.

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« Reply #3 on: August 03, 2015, 11:24:10 PM »

Welcome to the forum :)
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« Reply #4 on: August 04, 2015, 01:01:39 AM »

Hi, Butterfly,

Welcome to the forum. You may not know there are many couples in the similar situation as yours, and they have worked out the same way as what you are considering right now. Regarding whether agency or independent, my advice is if you choose carefully, agency should work well if you don't expect much pre-dating communication. Otherwise, independent is preferred if you like to have more interaction before the date.

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« Reply #5 on: August 04, 2015, 02:40:21 AM »

Welcome Butterfly. Nice to meet another newcomer from my general area (NZ here).  /thumbsup
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« Reply #6 on: August 04, 2015, 03:34:30 AM »

Hi Everyone,

Thanks for the feedback and the warm welcome.  /party

Pete - thanks for the feedback on using an agency versus an independent escort. I would indeed prefer some prior interaction, but I am a little nervous about not being able to know anything about the escort other than what he himself tells me. Also, agencies here in melbourne do not show any pictures! Finding the guy attractive is important to me? How does one best go about finding a good independent escort?

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« Reply #7 on: August 04, 2015, 04:22:04 AM »

Hi Everyone,

 I would indeed prefer some prior interaction, but I am a little nervous about not being able to know anything about the escort other than what he himself tells me. Also, agencies here in melbourne do not show any pictures! Finding the guy attractive is important to me? How does one best go about finding a good independent escort?


In general, I think you can ask for escort pictures from agency. Regarding prior interaction, depending upon the depth that you expect to know an independent escort, you can communicate with him through various channel for a considerable longer period such as months or even a year. Hence, when eventually meet- up, you two should have felt like close friends. If you browse through CdM introduction or companion ads sections, you can find several independent gents from Australia.

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« Reply #8 on: August 04, 2015, 06:25:46 AM »

Welcome, Butterflies. I suggest you spend some time reading a lot on this forum. There is a huge amount of information here. after several years of being a member, I still find new information.
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« Reply #9 on: August 04, 2015, 08:30:20 AM »

Also, agencies here in melbourne do not show any pictures! Finding the guy attractive is important to me? How does one best go about finding a good independent escort?

Thanks Butterflies

Hi Butterflies , although my first booking was for a  sensual massage only ( it ended up being more ) I also was very interested  in seeing what the masseuse was like physically . I was very fortunate that the chemistry between us  was amazing as I did not know what he would look like This agency assures that all of their men are over 35, are all professional masseuses who have been given further training in Trantric Yoni Massage and they are all extremely good looking  . I was very nervous booking my massage and felt a bit  out of place at first. Luckily the lady  handling the booking was a sweetheart and made me feel very comfortable. I think  an idea would be, when contacting the agency, if they do not share photos of their companions  to tell them how you like  your men... give them as many details  as possible... not only physical but  personality wise as well. Also have you thought about starting just with a sensual massage and see how you feel?

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« Reply #10 on: August 04, 2015, 02:16:19 PM »

Butterflies, hi and welcome.

It's fabulous you and your husband can talk about such things!  Enjoy CdM.
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« Reply #11 on: August 05, 2015, 09:19:52 AM »

Welcome Butterflies  /cheers
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« Reply #12 on: August 05, 2015, 07:04:00 PM »

Hi, Butterflies.
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« Reply #13 on: August 06, 2015, 10:01:04 PM »

Welcome Butterflies to the CdM community.
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