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jamesredd
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« on: May 01, 2011, 03:42:19 PM »

ill go straight to the point i wanted to know how companions deal with couples. Obviously it must be understood that the lady will be getting all the attention, but what about if they ask it as a couple. How is it dealt with if dealt with at all? Will the guy just sit and watch or will things be done with the guys consent descreetly. Obviously the guy should not expect to be getting involved in the action whatever way business is settled. Do compaions here not bother with such requests and if they do how do they handle the situation
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« Reply #1 on: May 01, 2011, 04:28:57 PM »

It could be any of the above as well as the husband/SO joining in. Assuming the companion is straight then the attention would be all focused on the lady but as long as all the parties are in agreement as to what is or is not doable it could be a great session.
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« Reply #2 on: May 04, 2011, 03:28:31 AM »

I usually tell the husband beforehand to let me know if he isn't getting a good view at any point  ;).
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« Reply #3 on: May 05, 2011, 07:19:30 PM »

Suggest the multi camera option when he views the DVD on his home theatre system.  /joker
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« Reply #4 on: May 09, 2011, 10:20:41 PM »

There is no way in hell,  I would put anything I do on film.  

And let us not just think "Him".  I, am the voyeur in my MMF relationships.

I am too occupied in MFM to be anything else but a full participant.  It must be the female in me.   /LOL

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« Reply #5 on: June 09, 2011, 01:40:07 PM »

There is no way in hell,  I would put anything I do on film.  

And let us not just think "Him".  I, am the voyeur in my MMF relationships.

I am too occupied in MFM to be anything else but a full participant.  It must be the female in me.   /LOL

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« Reply #6 on: June 09, 2011, 04:04:12 PM »

There is no way in hell,  I would put anything I do on film.  

And let us not just think "Him".  I, am the voyeur in my MMF relationships.

I am too occupied in MFM to be anything else but a full participant.  It must be the female in me.   /LOL

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Nog, I would never suggest anything of the sort.  :-\ I just meant generally...
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« Reply #7 on: June 09, 2011, 04:58:53 PM »

Hi James

Personally when I have a request from a couple I explain upfront that I am straight and won't be directing any of my attention toward the man.  Then I ask what they both want and discuss from there. 

In the end it comes down to what _you_ are comfortable with and to set those boundaries clearly before you meet. 

Personally I have no problem with being close to another guy in that situation, but am not interested in deliberate touching.  I think that for a couple experimenting with a companion, often a big part of the thrill for the woman is having two men giving her so much attention at the same time.  It makes for some very intense sensations and emotions ...

John.
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« Reply #8 on: June 10, 2011, 08:59:57 PM »

James,

John is spot on, communication is crucial. Ask questions to get a clear idea of what they've got in mind, and be clear about what you're comfortable with and what services you can or can't provide.

For myself, if it's an experience that is new for them, I always inquire whether they've had a open and honest discussion about what they may or may not be comfortable taking place/doing/seeing. To be frank, sometimes this leads to them realizing that perhaps one or both of them aren't quite ready, changing their minds and not booking. But in my opinion this is better than them going through with it and having an engagement that turns out to be less than enjoyable.

It can be a unique and fun dynamic, but the communication really needs to be there in order for everyone to be on the same page. Good luck!

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« Reply #9 on: June 10, 2011, 09:06:32 PM »

For myself, if it's an experience that is new for them, I always inquire whether they've had a open and honest discussion about what they may or may not be comfortable taking place/doing/seeing.

That is a very good suggestion Adam.  I don't ask that question directly myself, but often find that it is just one partner pushing for the date, but the other doesn't want to chat.  If that is the case, then there may be a problem.  As you say, you may loose the booking, but better that than a bad experience for one, or all of you.


It can be a unique and fun dynamic, but the communication really needs to be there in order for everyone to be on the same page. Good luck!

Agree entirely.  A threesome can be unreal fun if it works well :-)

John.

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