If you're trying to register, please read this:

Registration may take up to 4 days! If you're approved (and everyone is approved unless they are known trolls or registering from the same IP as another current member or a spam bot), you'll receive an email asking you to activate your account. Once you've activated, please post an introduction in the "Introductions" thread.

UPDATE: You may not receive the email described above. CDM must change over to updated servers, and then you'll receive notifications from the site. Until then, keep checking back! You're probably approved already. However, if you feel your sign-up did not go through, please email us at daisynectar at rocketmail dot com.

We have only a couple of volunteer moderators/administrators for this forum, and for some reason, spambots have sussed a way to break thru the security measures we have in place to prevent them from registering (i.e., captcha phrases, etc.). Thus we get hundreds of spam registrations a day, making it extremely time-consuming to sift through the spammers to add new genuine members. So if you have been lost in these thousands of spam registrations, please email daisynectar at rocketmail dot com and have patience while we work this issue out. Please be sure to send us the email you used to register as well as your username. We'll get you up and posting as soon as we can!

ALSO! Please avoid using spam-like user/posting names- these are almost always deleted. Spammy names are ones that sound silly or make no phonetic sense. Use your best judgment.

If you have already registered and forgotten your password or how to get into your user account, please email us at daisynectar at rocketmail dot com. Don't try to create another user account, because the way our spam block works, it may get you banned to have two accounts from one IP. If you live with someone who also wishes to have a membership here, and thus you will have the same IP, please email us so we can override this manually.

If your account has recently been deleted, it is most likely because you never posted, and haven't visited in a while. Remember that we require you to introduce yourself in the "Introductions" thread in the Newbie section.

Just bumping this with an update:

UPDATE: You may not receive the email described above. CDM must change over to updated servers, and then you'll receive notifications from the site. Until then, keep checking back! You're probably approved already. However, if you feel your sign-up did not go through, please email us at daisynectar at rocketmail dot com.