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« Reply #15 on: January 29, 2014, 09:21:11 PM »

Yes, Alex, exactly. I think I lean towards desiring longer dates.  I would want to be at a point of desiring my date so much that nervousness floats away.
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« Reply #16 on: March 12, 2015, 01:12:45 AM »

It's amazing how far down the list physical attractive qualities come. I look at some male escort profiles over and cringe. Do they really need that torso shot? Or the bicep curl at the gym? Eugh.

Subconsciously, the idea of a male escort is that he is virile, fit and healthy, so there is some degree that he needs to be those things. However, women want far more. As long as he doesn't meet her idea of 'ugly' or 'unattractive' then she will look to his personable and human qualities. I've gone down that route with my own website. You have to look a fair way through the writing before you find the photos.
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« Reply #17 on: March 12, 2015, 07:57:45 AM »

My take on this is that even though they list it way down, the ladies looking for a companion will filter their initial choice by appearance, but will then move quickly to personality, just like other women. If I continue my generalization on gender, which I don't really like to do, men will simply attach more important to attractiveness, but most will also move on to personality.
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« Reply #18 on: March 12, 2015, 10:07:18 AM »

I think Max is right. When I looked at we sights in the beginning, I first made sure the guy wasn't my idea of ugly, which may be quite different from other women's ideas. But looks alone weren't going to lure me in. Personality was.
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« Reply #19 on: March 12, 2015, 10:54:04 AM »

My opinion is that it depends on the lady's need and expectation. If she only needs a short time date even without pre-date communication, she will most probably go with agency escorts, where the looks of the escort is very important. That's the key reason that agencies only hire gents with extraordinary looks and body. On the other hand, if a lady needs substantial pre- date engagement,  personality factors weigh in to go hand in hand with physical appearance. 
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« Reply #20 on: March 12, 2015, 11:24:56 AM »

Insightful, Pete.
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« Reply #21 on: March 12, 2015, 10:28:54 PM »

Things I look for in any companion with whom I spend time are:

Intelligence. This includes but is not limited to a curiosity about the world, rather than someone who already knows how everything is and doesn't have room for adventure and discovery.

Humor. A good laugh is one of the most long-term endearing traits.

Attractiveness. This isn't the usual run of the mill attractiveness. Sometimes I find that people who are very good looking can become ugly the more their personality shows. Being attractive on the inside is JUST AS, if not more important than being attractive on the outside. Compassion and being genuine go a long way towards attractiveness.

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« Reply #22 on: March 13, 2015, 09:37:58 PM »

Things I look for in any companion with whom I spend time are:

This sounds like some excellent thoughts! I like it!

Intelligence. This includes but is not limited to a curiosity about the world, rather than someone who already knows how everything is and doesn't have room for adventure and discovery.

Humor. A good laugh is one of the most long-term endearing traits.

Attractiveness. This isn't the usual run of the mill attractiveness. Sometimes I find that people who are very good looking can become ugly the more their personality shows. Being attractive on the inside is JUST AS, if not more important than being attractive on the outside. Compassion and being genuine go a long way towards attractiveness.

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« Reply #23 on: July 22, 2015, 09:15:54 AM »

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« Reply #24 on: July 22, 2015, 05:22:06 PM »

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« Reply #25 on: July 24, 2015, 09:28:17 AM »

For me, there are 2 layers to this: the appearance and details of a companion's marketing (website or ad) and the companion himself (which includes physical stats as well as how he portrays himself online) and each have equal importance for me.

Let's start with the gentleman's online presence: I look for someone with at least a short bio of themselves, a menu with varied options for social and private engagements, and one without any boasting (i.e. referring to himself as the BEST or PREMIER companion for that locale) or glaring typos, grammatical errors, etc. 

On to the man himself: I do have an age preference so I first look to see if he falls within that range....
then onto the photos, and here I'm looking for some evidence of his personality (suggestive photos with women are a turn-off for me, so I'd rather not see them in the main photo gallery) and that he at least looks healthy....  if I'm still intrigued at that point, how he describes what he offers is really the most important thing.  Evidence of an adaptable nature, patience, and the true desire to give a woman the exact experience she seeks are key.  That last being the most important, of course.  ;-)

So that's way more than just 3, but I (like many women) tend to overthink...... well.... EVERYTHING.   :p


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« Reply #26 on: July 24, 2015, 10:39:49 AM »

It might not be limited to 3, but it has the benefit of being very clear. Good work!  :)
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« Reply #27 on: August 01, 2015, 05:09:42 AM »

I look for the 'Three P's'

Physical Conventionally handsome, skinny / slim / athletic (but super cut - no body fat), black hair and if in a country where I can purchase sex,  well hung and uncut.

Performance Not all companions are sexually talented. My choice must be exceptionally so.

Personality We need to connect in general, so his personality must mesh with mine. Easy-going,  attentive, politically and socially active and a resilient spirit.
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